Tuesday, 31 December 2013

Out with the old







It's been a strange year.  There have been happy moments and a few when we almost despaired when we couldn't see any light at the end of the tunnel.  Now we start a new year with all the usual hopes and a few worries - and still a lot of sorting out to do with M's affairs. 
Slowly things are happening - a buyer found for the stairlift, responses from various organisations which will allow us to start the long process of winding things up, and starting to feel that we might go forward.  It's hard to change your life overnight, however much one longs to, and we had been living a restricted life for five long years - almost like becoming institutionalised.  We haven't yet got used to being able to walk freely through the door, lock it behind us, and come back when we please.
Grand-daughter has changed from a small baby at the beginning of the year to a walking, sort of talking toddler who gives us a lot of pleasure and we have more time for her and our friends and family. 
The blog should really be renamed, there isn't a Me any longer.  Watch this space, who knows what we might do now - though at present getting up late, eating when we feel like it and going to bed late or early are life's greatest small pleasure.
Happy New Year to you all, I hope we all have a New Year full of happiness.

7 comments:

Relatively Retiring said...

Enjoy the small pleasures - they often turn out to be the greatest!

Marigold Jam said...

Hope that 2014 will prove a good year for you and that you will settle into your new lifestyle happily.

Anonymous said...

I imagine that it will take some time to re-adjust after being restricted for so long, something to look forward to.

Happy New Year to you and yours, enjoy 2014!

Gina said...

Wishing you a happy new year. x

Pam said...

And happy new year to you too. Enjoy it!

Unknown said...

happy new year... x

Zhoen said...

It's really fairly easy to start a new blog. Fresh and clean. Worthwhile, perhaps.

Reading this, I kept remembering how long it took me not to worry about downstairs neighbors when the floor of our house creaked. And how long it took after intensive college programs to find a new normal that didn't involve studying every breathing moment.