Tuesday, 1 November 2011

Coming out of the gloom - we hope...

Views towards the Cotswolds imitating Japanese art
The view towards Worcester (completely vanished) makes us feel as if we're on the coast





Well, thank goodness October is over.  I may be tempting fate, but I'm sure November can't be as bad.  In fact I shall be pleased when this whole year is over as we've lurched from one crisis to another.   I already felt that the broken arm had lost me most of August and the whole of September, but October has been full of difficulties and sadness - it can surely only get better.  

Thank you to all the bloggy friends who missed me and emailed to find out if I was OK.   The arm is now back to working order in most ways - still have a numb thumb which is improving and it aches if I do certain things, but being able to drive again is wonderful.  I have to go back for a check up in December.

I'm back to knitting but I'm being careful to choose only things that use small numbers of stitches - photos will follow in another post.  I'm well stocked with fabric after the latest local quilting show, so hopefully the new sewing machine will come into its own in a few days, once we've finished sorting a few things out in the house.

We've had some fabulous mornings here lately - the landscape looks like a Japanese paintings with the mist in the valleys between us and the Cotswolds or Worcester depending on which way you look.  I'm off later to  a much-postponed lunch with a friend in Ledbury and the sun is struggling through the mist so we might get a few nice hours during the middle of the day.

Friday, 30 September 2011

Mid-morning escape


Even H couldn't find an excuse to stay indoors in this glorious weather, and there was a list of things to be purchased or collected, so we hastily made M's mid -morning drink, and having called at the Dr's for her prescription, went into Great Malvern.  To my surprise, after I'd visited the bank H's feet veered left into the Bluebird Tearooms - a real old-fashioned Malvern gem which is up above a shop in the High Street.  It was very quiet and I do worry that the more trendy spots opening up in the town are diminishing its custom - especially as one could easily walk past and not notice it.   

Upstairs it still retains many original chairs and tables which go back to Elgar's time though the decor is more modern.  There's a limited menu but it's all very good and caters for vegan and vegetarian too.  The prices are reasonable and the cakes are exceptional - I had a wonderful chunk of bread pudding made as my mother used to with piles of fruit and crunchy on top but soft inside.  H had a huge orange and chocolate slice which he said was fantastic.  



The best thing for us about going out even for a short while together is it's the only time we can have a conversation without fear of M overhearing - her deafness is of the convenient variety so we often have to go right down to the study in the basement to be sure of not being overheard (not very helpful is you want to have an argument or arrange something private that doesn't involve M!). 

Tomorrow is our wedding anniversary so daughter and partner are coming to lunch (I've shopped for it by Ocado so I hope it turns up in time!).   H is out in the evening but we felt we had to do something - 36 years isn't bad going especially when you think what the last three have been like!    Unfortunately, they cut my wedding ring off when I broke my arm so I need to see if it can be repaired when this wretched splint comes off.  Weather was as good as this when we got married though it didn't last into our honeymoon - the current forecast seems good for a few days though.  Hope you're enjoying it too!

Sunday, 25 September 2011


It's been a dull week here in every sense.   The weather's been grey and rainy - until twenty minutes ago when the sun suddenly came out.  Still unable to drive, so apart from a quick trip with H to collect M's prescriptions - which is easier with two, one to run into the pharmacy and one to turn the car around - I've hardly been outside even into the garden (daughter's been away on holiday).   If this arm is not deemed to have healed when I go back in 10 days time, I shall have to start investigating the local bus routes, it's bit too far to walk into town and means walking along the bit of pavement where I fell over. H considers going out as unecessary unless there's a cast iron reason, preferring to spend his time in front of a computer or a musical keyboard of some sort.

I've done the food shopping, bought a few new 't'shirts, and some totally unecessary fabric (well it was in a sale) online, and had a small splurge on ebay on a couple more Britain's wild horses (see this post if this doesn't make sense), so the herd is expanding nicely.  Being stuck at home is not good for the finances.

Next week doesn't hold out much hope of further entertainment - H has lessons of various sorts on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday evening, and daughter is busy.  Saturday is our wedding anniversary but it clashes with an organ recital which H especially wants to go to (well, the player, Dr Francis Jackson, is about to celebrate his 94th birthday so I can see that it's a case of catch him while you can!)  It's very frustrating - I'm still doing all the boring things which I can manage easily and can't do the more amusing things.  Roll on 4th October!

Sunday, 18 September 2011

Three or ninety-three


 93



Today is M's 93rd birthday.  So far she's - opened all her cards yesterday and thrown most of them away, tried the chocolates Grandson 1 sent and decided she won't eat them and they're now waiting to be given away, received two enormous bouquets of beautiful flowers which she says she can't see and has had them repositioned every half-hour because there isn't enough room in this silly room (- the room that's the same size as our sittingroom with an ensuite the size of our bathroom in which she insists on staying all day every day despite constant request to come down stairs to sit in the conservatory or eat in the kitchen),  said she won't eat the steak bought specially at the best local butchers because she said it was what she fancied.  Phoned most of her friends and told them that we aren't doing anything for her birthday.  (We offered to take her out for lunch or tea but that's been totally vetoed.)
Resolution did waiver when we gave her some truffles from a specialist shop (more fitting to her status than the mass produced ones sent by post, apparently).  If she won't eat the birthday cake, still to come, made by daughter, she may well find herself wearing it - daughter being of a less forgiving nature and less concerned with a quiet life!
She's told everyone that this will be her last birthday - as she's been saying that for at least 15 years and comes from a family where many have lived to be well over a hundred, we aren't making any plans!  If the person who found previous posts about M inappropriate would like to object to this one, they're very welcome... 

Thursday, 8 September 2011

Not being in Devon



We decided to postpone our Devon trip, so I'm sitting here listening to 'The Men from the Ministry' on Radio 4 Extra (memories of cooking supper in our little flat when we were first married when there was a comedy programme every weekday evening at 6.30 when I got in from work) and feeling fairly pleased that the weather is dull so we're not missing out on sunshine and a sparkling sea view.

The view above is Bredon Hill taken with zoom from our bedroom window a few days ago - I was listening to Radio 4 that morning - a programme about A E Houseman which included a reading by Henry Sandon of Houseman's poem Bredon Hill.  I'd only known it as a song so to hear it read in Bredon Church was a delight:

In summertime on Bredon
The bells they sound so clear;
Round both the shires they ring them
In steeples far and near,
A happy noise to hear. 

Here of a Sunday morning
My love and I would lie,
And see the coloured counties,
And hear the larks so high
About us in the sky. 

The bells would ring to call her
In valleys miles away:
'Come to church, good people;
Good people, come and pray.'
But here my love would stay. 

And I would turn and answer
Among the springing thyme,
'Oh, peal upon our wedding,
And we will hear the chime,
And come to church in time.' 

But when the snows at Christmas
On Bredon top were strown,
My love rose up so early
And stole out unbeknown
And went to church alone. 

They tolled the one bell only,
Groom there was none to see,
The mourners followed after,
And so to church went she,
And would not wait for me. 

The bells they sound on Bredon,
And still the steeples hum.
'Come all to church, good people,' ---
Oh, noisy bells, be dumb;
I hear you, I will come.

H hates spoken radio - almost as much as he hates TV - especially daytime TV, and if he had his way we'd live with constant organ and harpsichord music (which sometimes sets my teeth on edge) so I listen in my office, in the sewing room or when I'm alone in the car.  I've loved Radio 4 (the Home Service then, I think) since I discovered its comedy programmes in my teens.  We'd always listened to The Archers, Woman's Hour, Children's Hour and, of course, Listen with Mother, but my mother's favourite channel was the Light programme - later Radio2 where she was devoted to Mrs Dale's Diary and various light music programmes.  Like all '60's teenagers I listened to Radio 1 and pirate stations like Radio Caroline on a tiny transistor, but struggling through the endless homework dished out by Grammar Schools in those days  was more bearable accompanied by The Navy Lark, I'm Sorry I'll Read That Again or Round The Horn - or one of the many amusing quiz programmes usually featuring Frank Muir and Dennis Norden.    I love the way radio allows you to do other things whilst TV anchors you to the sofa,  and a long drive alone is wonderful as you're obliged to listen to whatever comes on and that's often a revelation.  I attributed quite a lot of my miscellaneous collection of general knowledge and odd information to constant Radio 4 listening and I continue to learn.  Only yesterday I took delivery of some moth traps that I'd heard about on a radio programme - and jolly effective they're proving to be! 

The arm's now in a splint for 4 weeks, so still no driving, but it is getting better, and my delightful daughter is around at the moment to act as chauffeuse, so it definitely could be worse!

Saturday, 3 September 2011



Things you can and can't do with one working hand :

You Can
Shower - with one hand in a plastic bag tied up with sellotape
Dress - though bras are tricky
Cook - most things and even wash up pans and frying pans but not cut bread - self defence as H's idea of a proper meal is not mine and tends to be short on quantity and variety
Iron
Clear up the kitchen and sweep up with a dustpan and brush
Put the washing in and out the machine/dryer - but not fold it up neatly or carry it back to the bedrooms/wardrobes
Use the computer and therefore blog, pay the bills, make purchases
Clean the bathrooms and M's horrible double shower
Water the garden
Use the exercise bike
Go for a walk if you avoid where you fell over in the first place and don't carry a bag and ignore the worry that you might fall over again.


You can't

Knit
Sew - either by hand or with the new macine which is sitting temptingly in full view
Cut out a pattern or fabric for a quilt
Draw or paint without fear of getting paint etc all over the plaster cast on your left hand - why? I don't get both hands dirty normally
Make anything requiring glue, water, stickers or intricate cutting
 Read comfortably, especially in bed.  A surprise this as you don't realise how you need the second hand especially with a paperback.
Drive the car
Food shop - unless taken by someone else who then dictates what can be bought, which means we have a strange selection of food which seems unlikely to make a satisfactory meal (why did H go to the local shop and buy onions, celery, bananas and mushrooms, all of which we have plenty of anyway, but nothing to put in a sandwich and no fruit?) 



I'd be very happy if someone else did all the things in the 'can' list - except the computer bit - but it's very dull not being able to do things on the can't list.  Onion sandwiches anyone?

Thursday, 1 September 2011

I don't know if you watched the play and subsequent documentary about Hans Litten - the young German lawyer who tried to stop Hitler's rise to power by calling him as a witness during a trial in 1931 and discrediting him during a cross-examination.  The documentary would still be on i-player and is well worth watching.

Having succeeded to some extent in his efforts he became, of course, a target for Hitler's vengeance, and was arrested and imprisioned as soon as Hitler became Chancellor.  He spent the rest of his life in various prisons and concentration camps eventually committing suicide in 1938 in Dachau.  Quite apart from his heroic efforts against the Nazi regime, his personal bravery was immense.  For Hitler's 45th birthday all prisoners were required to create a beautiful gift.  The poem Hans Litten produced is surely a thing of beauty - a gift to us all,  I think, wherever people are oppressed and wrongly imprisoned or accused.

Thoughts are free, who can guess them?
They flee by like nocturnal shadows.
No man can know them, no hunter can shoot them
with powder and lead: 
Thoughts are free!

I think what I want, and what delights me,
still always reticent, and as it is suitable.
My wish and desire, no one can deny me
and so it will always be: 
Thoughts are free!

And if I am thrown into the darkest dungeon,
all this would be futile work,
because my thoughts tear all gates
and walls apart: 
Thoughts are free!

So I will renounce my sorrows forever,
and never again will torture myself with some fancy ideas.
In one's heart, one can always laugh and joke
and think at the same time: 
Thoughts are free!

I love wine, and my girl even more,
Only I like her best of all.
I'm not alone with my glass of wine,
my girl is with me: 
Thoughts are free!

It's obviously best read and heard in the original German.